Being unattractive is playing the dating game on hard mode
So, I’m going to break in here right at the start: this is a good thing to recognize in yourself.Realizing that you’re holding on to negative, self-limiting beliefs is an important step in overcoming them. Physically attractive, tall and fit, non smoker, social drinker, intelligent (masters qualified), undertaking a career that corresponds with my education level, and cultured, with a strong interest in many of the arts, along with active competition in sport (i’m a cyclist) to a high amateur level.These are the Post-Mortems, where we dissect a letter and dig through the remains in order to get to the heart of the issue. Many times, we’re having to liberally apply the Chair Leg of Truth to a lifetime of beliefs.But, while the love may be tough, at the end we’re going to know exactly what went wrong and how we can do better next time.Extra points if the character has not only a high opinion of themselves, but also a low opinion of everyone else.But unfortunately for them, they are usually so busy kissing their mirror they don't see that the plot has a very special treat in stock for them that will teach them the error of their ways right before our eyes.People all over the autism spectrum have relationships which run the gamut, from friends-with-benefits arrangements to long and happy marriages.Despite all of this, I have only ever had one 5-month relationship when I was 16. I’ve found it very very difficult to get dates at a regular frequency, so in that time I’ve been on only 20 dates.
Right, here’s the first thing that leaps out at me: out of 20 dates, you’ve wanted to have a second date with 90% of them. is a discerning that you’ve only ever gone out with people who were exactly what you’re looking for… One of the issues with online dating is that it’s impossible to successfully gauge compatibility without meeting in person. You can have great, flirty conversations via text and instant messages or even Snapchat.If the setting is High School, the Alpha Bitch and the Jerk Jock will be the victims of such a plot. If the Hubris is society-wide, see Look on My Works, Ye Mighty, and Despair! A harsh instance of this trope can result in Redemption Equals Affliction.Compare Sudden Humility, which may or may not affect a haughty character. If this is the protagonist's main character development, it's a Jerk-to-Nice-Guy Plot.In fiction, it's dangerous to carry one's head too high.What kind of character is used for this story varies; it can be anyone from a Jerkass to a Corrupt Corporate Executive.
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If you mean “women don’t make the first move,” then you’re missing a critical factor: a lot of guys react to women who flaunt or invert gender roles.